What should I save before divorce mediation?
You want to walk in prepared without bringing a messy pile.
Last reviewed May 07, 2026
Short answer
Save the issues to discuss, your goals, current orders, financial records, parenting notes, key documents, and questions.
Save the issue list
Write the topics that need discussion.
Keep the list simple and grouped by topic.
Save your goals
Write what outcome you hope for in plain words.
Also write what points may be flexible.
Save records by topic
Put money records, parenting records, and property records in separate groups.
Use labels that make sense under stress.
Save questions
Write what you need explained before you agree to anything.
Bring those questions with your notes.
What to do first
Make three folders or lists: issues, records, and questions.
What to save
- Issue list
- Goals and flexible points
- Current orders or agreements
- Financial records
- Parenting schedule notes
- Property or debt records if relevant
- Questions for mediation
What to avoid
- Bringing one unsorted pile
- Forgetting your questions
- Mixing goals with accusations
- Relying only on memory
Start with one small step
Organize your issues, records, goals, and questions before mediation.
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