What should I bring to a custody hearing?
Court has a special talent for making important details hide the minute you need them.
Last reviewed May 07, 2026
Short answer
Bring a short summary, your key dates, current orders, important documents, and a small set of proof that supports the main issue.
Keep it small
Do not bring a giant pile as your main plan.
Bring a simple packet you can find your way through while stressed.
Bring the current basics
Bring current orders, hearing notices, filed papers, and anything the court gave you about the hearing.
Keep copies in the order you may need them.
Bring one short timeline
A timeline helps you stay clear.
Use dates, short facts, and the proof that goes with each fact.
Bring calm notes
Write what you are asking for in one or two plain sentences.
Write three key facts you want to remember.
Make the next piece usable
Make a one-page list: what is being discussed, what you are asking for, and the three most important dates.
What to save
- Current orders
- Hearing notice
- Filed papers
- A one-page timeline
- A short exhibit list
- Notes on what you want to say
What to avoid
- Unlabeled screenshots
- A large stack with no order
- New accusations without dates
- Notes written in anger
Start with the next calm step
Create one case record so your hearing date, notes, documents, and key records are easier to find.
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